December 2011
1 post
“Anyone can give up, it’s the easiest thing ever. But to hold it together...”
– The Notebook of Love
October 2011
7 posts
One of the many reasons why I love being an Aunt!
Aunty Ritha loves her baby Edward & Jacob …..
I wish they stayed this way …. *sighs*
My handsome love buggs :)
1 yr old & the smiles go away …. LOL So curious!
…… see they’re so serious LOL!
2 years old… Terrible 2’s .. but I wouldn’t ask for it in any other way..
I <3 my babies!
Sleepless night for Ritha ..
Today was such a drag… Long day at work, especially coming from having a great weekend with my loves. Got home and took a nap. Woke up from my nap and just sat there and started thinking. I sat on the bed for about an hr just debating on if I should go to the gym or not. I chose to just go to the gym.
My goal this month was to lose at least 10lbs, I’m not gonna weigh myself til...
Taking it one day at a time I guess..
I don’t know what’s wrong with me but why do I still continue to think about you and worry about what’s going on and how things are going with you? I should careless about whats going on in your life and worry about mine. I have so much going on in my life but I still bother to let my feelings take over and wonder about what you’re going thru and if you’re waking up...
2 tags
Thinking of you....
Sitting here thinking of you, wondering if I ever cross your mind the way u cross mine every day and night. I catch myself still hoping and wishing that we worked out, but reality strikes and it strikes harder then it’s ever had. This time the feeling is real. Today is day one of not checking your twitter like a psycho ex girlfriend. I’m not gonna lie this whole week I checked it...
August 2011
1 post
6 tags
Embracing this feeling & Dealing with it!
I will take this as a lesson learned AGAIN .. lol I don’t know how many times I’ll go through this, but I know for sure this time I have total control over what’s going on, and its time to move on with my life.
Breaking up / finally moving on from someone you fell in love with is hard. I’m not gonna sit here and tell my girlfriends “I’m so over him”...
July 2011
7 posts
Never settle, YOU DESERVE BETTER!
They always say, “never settle for less.” Never be okay with receiving less than you deserve. But how do you know what you deserve? You find yourself in a relationship where he doesn’t remember every little thing. But that’s okay, you tell yourself, because it’s not like you’ll find a guy who does. You don’t feel like the number one thing in his life, but are you ever going to find someone like...
Girls Language
When she stares at your mouth, kiss her.
When she pushes you or hits you like a dummy cause she thinks shes stronger than you, grab her and don`t let go.
When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough, kiss her and tell her you love her.
When she`s quiet, ask her what`s wrong.
When she ignores you,give her your attention.
When she pulls away, pull her back.
When you see her at her worst, tell her she`s beautiful.
When you see her start crying, just hold her and don`t say a word.
When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind.
When she`s scared, protect her and make her feel safe with you.
When she steals your favorite hoodie, let her keep it and sleep with it for a night.
When she teases you, tease her back and make her laugh.
When she doesn`t answer for a long time, reassure her that everything is okay.
When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up.
When she says that she loves you, she really does more than you can understand.
When she grabs at your hands, hold hers and play with her fingers.
When she bumps into you, bump into her back and make her laugh.
When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold.
When she looks at you in your eyes, don`t look away until she does.
When she says it`s over, she still wants you to be hers.
Wow, It's been a while . . . . .
I’ve been neglecting my tumblr :’( … OH WELL, time to TUMBLR around ya’ll :)
“I never get jealous when I see my ex with someone else, because my mother always...”
– via The Notebook of Love
June 2011
2 posts
Nothing lasts forever - Maroon 5 (One of my...
It is so easy to see Dysfunction between you and me We must free up these tired souls Before the sadness kills us both I tried and tried to let you know I love you but I’m letting go It may not last but I don’t know Just don’t know If you don’t know Then you can’t care And you show up But you’re not there But I’m waiting And you want to Still afraid that I...
4 tags
If a man truly loves a women, he will go out of...
I have yet to find a man like this …
Just speaking my mind right now…
Our love was there, but somehow just drifted away..I feel as if I didn’t secure our foundation before we both fell in love. Instead, I fell in love first and went with what my heart felt at the time. I took a risk and went ahead and tried it out and hoped for everything to fall in place, because when your...
April 2011
29 posts
If you throw away a good relationship because of...
I hear guys complain about not being able to find...
“Everyday you wake up is a blessing…treat it like that. Be thankful for...”
“Don’t let the scars of your past be painful reminders that rule your...”
ateniforeternity-deactivated201 asked: hiyeee ritha!! i didnt kno yu had a tumblr lol! hope all is well! love you<3
I can't sleep right now, its 2:29am and I can't...
We may not have all the answers Oh I know that we can change some of the things that are beyond our control And the vision of us may be blurry But use your heart to see Just follow the beat, the rhythm will lead you right back to me Sometimes its a game of give and take Its easy to break but hold on and wait Have a little faith I will go down to the last round I’ll be your strength...
2 tags
Lets be real ...
Third times a charm I guess .. well in my case, no not really.. once again we’re both left heartbroken for the third time .. THIRD FUCKEN TIME! … *excuse my french*
I’m a be real about this and let it all out… I’m so done with this, off and on relationships is just not a healthy relationship at all, I was in denial when someone told me “Ritha the on & off...
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the...
Good night folks :)
Adapt, improvise, and overcome...
“A friendship that is transformed into a relationship beats a crush any day :)”
A man who treats his woman like a princess is...
AGREE :)
“Always make your absence felt in such a way that somebody misses you, but...”
Just have a lot on my mind right now ....
People tell me I think too much, but seriously why NOT? ..what is wrong with thinking twice about decisions that you are about to make or whats going on with your life? .. I know I know life is too short .. but gosh .. I just don’t understand how some people not all just some … can just live with no priorities, and goals in life to do better..etc.
I really don’t know how to...
Positive and Motivated
I will get through this, and so will you, I never meant to have you feeling “Broken” .. but time will heal your pain. I pray that god continues to bless you in many ways. You’re a great guy and deserves to be happy.
sighs*
He will always be my bestfriend, he will come around I know he will, I must stay positive about this situation. I put myself here and I have faith that I will get through...
“A heart is a fragile thing, that’s why we protect them so vigorously. ...”
iydeehtoilolo asked: awww yaaay kalofae ia Sia - i know we'll be there hope to see yu soon !!
“I’ve learned giving up, isn’t a form of weakness, it’s...”
March 2011
11 posts
1 tag
Week 1 (Missing Him)
Today marks a week of no talking, texting, phone calls, nothing. I’m not gonna lie to myself and tell everyone that I don’t miss him, because truth be told I fucken miss him like crazy (excuse my French.) We ended things understanding that it just wasn’t going to work out, and feelings were mutual.
I can’t help it ….
Apart of me feels that I’ve lost a...
